A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year-old grandson. His hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together each night, but the grandfather's shaky hands made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon, and milk often spilled from his glass onto the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law grew irritated with the mess. They set a small table in the corner for the grandfather to eat alone, while the rest of the family dined together. Since he had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.
Sometimes, when the family glanced his way, they saw a tear in his eye as he ate in solitude. Yet, the only words he received were sharp admonitions whenever he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old grandson watched everything in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. "What are you making?" he asked kindly. The boy replied just as sweetly, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat from when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and returned to his work.
The parents were struck speechless by his words. Tears streamed down their cheeks. Without a word, they both knew what must be done. That evening, the husband took his father's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days, the old man ate every meal with the family. Somehow, neither parent seemed to care anymore when a fork was dropped, milk was spilled, or the tablecloth was soiled.
Children are remarkably perceptive. Their eyes always observe, their ears always listen, and their minds process the messages they absorb. If they see us patiently create a loving home, they will imitate that attitude for life. A wise parent understands that every day lays the foundation for a child's future.
Let us all be wise builders and role models. Take care of yourself and those you love, today and every day.