The Power of Choice | 选择的力量

English Original

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When asked how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I'd be twins!" He was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling them how to look on the positive side. This style made me curious, so one day I asked him, "I don't get it. You can't be positive all the time. How do you do it?"

Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, 'Mike, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or choose to learn from it. I choose to learn. Every time someone complains to me, I can choose to accept their complaining or point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side."

"Yeah, right. It isn't that easy," I protested.

"Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose your mood. The bottom line is: It's your choice how you live life."

I reflected on what Michael said.


中文翻译

迈克尔是那种让你又爱又“恨”的人。他总是心情愉快,总有一些积极的话要说。当有人问他过得怎么样时,他会回答:“好得不能再好了,不然我就是双胞胎了!”他天生就是个激励者。

如果有员工那天过得很糟,迈克尔就会出现在那里,告诉他们如何看到事情积极的一面。这种风格让我很好奇,所以有一天我问他:“我不明白。你不可能一直保持积极。你是怎么做到的?”

迈克尔回答说:“每天早上我醒来就对自己说,‘迈克,你今天有两个选择。你可以选择心情愉快,也可以选择心情糟糕。’我选择心情愉快。每次发生不好的事情,我可以选择成为受害者,也可以选择从中学习。我选择学习。每次有人向我抱怨,我可以选择接受他们的抱怨,也可以指出生活中积极的一面。我选择积极的一面。”

“是啊,说得对。这没那么容易,”我反驳道

“不,就是这么容易,”迈克尔说。“生活就是关于选择。当你抛开所有杂念,每一种境遇都是一个选择。你选择如何应对。你选择让别人如何影响你的情绪。你选择自己的心情。归根结底:如何生活是你的选择。”

我思考着迈克尔说的话。

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